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Pik

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Impossible to stay awake
« on: November 04, 2011, 09:15:32 AM »
I've only done Level 1 for 2 days but I can't seem to stay awake past about 10 mins (I close my eyes during the session) despite doing it in the middle of the morning. I understand that you need to be awake to get results so I really need help here!

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #1 on: November 04, 2011, 12:16:56 PM »
Hi Pik,
Welcome to the forum!
I wouldn't worry one bit about not being able to stay awake. Level 1 and 2 are all about entering alpha brainwave frequencies and deep alpha. Be sure to look at the introductory videos so you know what is happening. It is no coincidence that 10 minutes into session sees you nodding off - the video will be self-explanatory. Alpha is the state we go into before sleep, it is obviously relaxing, brainwaves slow right down.... and tip you into snooze state!
Remember everyone is different. Many users are so wired up, they cannot relax. So I think you can congratulate yourself on being so open to relaxation at this early stage.
By the way, it is beneficial to write this up on the forum. My guess is that within a few days, you will habituate somewhat, and find you are still super relaxed but more awake. That is the effect of the brain gymnastics - you gain resiliance.
If you want to stay awake, I have seen meditation teachers recommend holding a glass of water in your hand - keeps the focus a bit. Still there is no harm in sleeping a wee bit at the outset.
Happy journey and let me know if you are more awake in a few days!
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« Last Edit: November 27, 2011, 04:49:42 AM by Pure Bliss »

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2011, 10:11:25 PM »
Thanks, Pure Bliss.  I'll re-post when I get there!

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #3 on: November 26, 2011, 09:03:42 PM »
I've noticed that I can't stay awake, either, dozing off between the 5- and 10-minutes marks. I did notice, though, that today's doze was quite short (this is my fourth day on disk 1), so maybe I'm acclimating to it.

This brings up a different question, though. After I wake up, I am incredibly bored for the rest of the 30 minutes. What are we supposed to be doing? If I day-dream or think more seriously, does that negate or lessen the value of the experience? If so, I could really use some suggestions. I've always had a very low threshold for boredom,, although it's less now (at 61) than it was 30-40 years ago.

Any help would be appreciated.

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #4 on: November 27, 2011, 04:43:16 AM »
Hallo again Pik,
Welcome Tewald!

I am going to answer this - not because you necessarily need the answer - but I do! This is something I need to get into my mind and understanding for once and for all.

Pik and Tewald find themselves falling asleep. First and obvious solution is to ensure one doesn't do a session when one is tired = avoid the Need Sleep trap. So first action is to change the time of day. If the sleeping during session continues then accept it is the effect of exposure to nice, calming, ultra-relaxing alpha frequencies. All our lives we have experienced deep alpha as a prelude to sleep. It takes time (maybe more time than some would like) to overcome the alpha = sleep habit, and build resilience to remain awake during the session.

Tewald has overcome the alpha = sleep hurdle, so the 5 to 10 minute mark is when the brainwave frequencies dip lower - sleep happens briefly as a habituated response, and then you wake up. Well done. This is progress. And Tewald now finds him/herself bored.

So Tewald, not getting sucked in by boredom is your next threshold.

[Now this is the part where I get all airy-fairy, so bear with me. As I said, this lesson is really for me: I need to get this. If you benefit too, then we have a win-win situation. I definitely hope you win too!]

It is about karma. What is karma? Consider it all the muck and gunk (and good stuff we are attached to like our great job, that fat income, the comfy home) that we carry around inside our heads. I believe these walls (need to sleep, boredom, irritation, beta-frazzle thinking) are all our ego-based solutions to escape learning about ourselves (evolving, if you prefer that term).

I love Sadhguru (and I'm currently reading his concept-altering book, Mystic's Musings). He tells of a man walking down the road carrying 100kg of gold on his back. (The idea being this man perceives his burden = gold, to be worth carrying.)  Another man walks by carrying 100kg of garbage on his back. The first man sees this and wonders why on earth a man would go through life carrying 100kg of garbage with him, day in and day out. He sure is pretty attached to that garbage. Oddly, neither the man with the 'valuable cargo' nor the individual with the 'significant burden' sees how wearing it is to carry 100kg in weight around with them. [My comment: if we are honest, if someone came along and tried to rob us of either our gold or our rubbish, we believe it is ours - we want/deserve to hang on to it. In fact we refuse to let go. It's ours.] Then a third man walks by. Lets call him Sadhguru, for he is a wise, enlightened, awakened man. Strangely he carries nothing on his shoulders. He walks free. He sees the two men struggling with their 100kg baggage and says to them, "I see you are tired, worn out and battered by your burdens. You are both highly intelligent men. Why don't you just set your burden down at the side of the road. Then you will both be free. You can walk much further, with much more joy, when you have nothing to carry, nothing to guard from others."

Back to Brain Ev now. I think Brain Ev is an evolutionary tool. To evolve we must set down our burden. We can make very heavy weather of evolving, i.e. pick through every ounce of gold (shall I keep it? can I part with this?) Similarly we can sift through the garbage. All our hurts, pains, fears and stresses. What to keep and what to loose? The enlightened answer of course, is to LOOSE IT ALL. We don't need it. Just let it go.

So, Pik and Tewald, as I see it, sleeping, nodding off, day-dreaming, boredom, irritation, wishful thinking, satisfaction, dissatisfation, these  are symptoms of "hanging on". It is our defense mechanism. It is karma. It is us doing anything we can to avoid "letting go".

Tewald. You are 61. You have a "very low threshold for boredom" (your words, your garbage, your karma). Now you can play the "I won't evolve/let go/entrain because it bores me" card. Or not. Your choice. If you are bored and you consciously decide NOT to become attached to the experience of boredom, you will let go and relax sufficiently to entrain to the next  brainwave frequency. It is, like all things in life, your choice.

Boredom? Or lose the burden? I know what path I would choose. Though I accept letting go of both gold and bull**** is so, so, so hard. I have the same task ahead of me. So much gold and so much garbage, can I really take the risk of travelling with no load on my back. Where would life take me then?

May your journey be one of bliss, wherever life takes you. Best wishes Pure Bliss

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #5 on: November 27, 2011, 05:12:32 AM »
I have yet to overcome the falling asleep because I have taken a break from BrainEv.  Have been very ill for weeks now (incessant cough, etc) so am waiting to get well & get on.  I have woken up like Tewald and I find it really boring too.  I've been told about falling asleep as my brain's way of escaping.  So I shall try to lose the burden.  Not sure how (please keep posting, tewald!) but hope to recover and start again.

Btw, I did try listening in the morning - that's when I managed to wake up after a while!

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #6 on: November 27, 2011, 03:37:59 PM »
Thanks for your answers. I have a medical problem that has kept me from sleeping through the night for about 11 years (very good nights I get up twice; bad nights have been 20+), so getting sleepy is not surprising, just frustrating. If I weren't at least going to keep trying, I would not even have posted. I'm just wondering what the correct action on my part should be. That is, not whether or not I should quit, but what I should be doing while enduring the final 20 minutes or so of the time. Is day-dreaming okay, or will it negate or lessen the value?

Thanks, again. (BTW, t = "Tom", so I'm a "he")

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #7 on: November 27, 2011, 08:10:43 PM »
This brings up a different question, though. After I wake up, I am incredibly bored for the rest of the 30 minutes. What are we supposed to be doing? If I day-dream or think more seriously, does that negate or lessen the value of the experience? If so, I could really use some suggestions. I've always had a very low threshold for boredom,, although it's less now (at 61) than it was 30-40 years ago.


Hi Tewald,

The best answer I can give you is "it depends". Just as meditation cannot be defined even by masters because, although it can be all these things, it is usually something different to everybody--relaxing, philosophical, light, serious, religious, etc.  Similarly, BWE users do BrainEv for various reasons--meditation, creative brainstorming, rejuvenation, gym for your brain, etc. Are you trying to still the mind or creatively come up with an answer? Therefore, the reason for doing BrainEv will determine whether or not you should daydream, as daydreaming is purposefully stirring up thoughts, ideas, activity. If you are not trying to come up with ideas, then yes, it is counterproductive. That doesn't mean you won't see results.

I can appreciate the boredom factor. Like anything, it takes getting used to. Some folks will find just sitting with your eyes closed difficult--time, practice and the right attitude/perspective will help. As far as sleeping during session: slow, deep breathing and sitting up with spine aligned (mild tension in spinal muscles, such as pinching shoulder blades together) helps. A slouched or reclined (relaxed) position and/or shallow breathing can promote falling asleep. If I can provide further assistance, please let me know. Best wishes to you!!
« Last Edit: December 01, 2011, 04:57:35 PM by AZ Warrior »
Sincerely and best regards,

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #8 on: December 01, 2011, 05:58:00 AM »
Ahhh AZ Warrior,
A masterful piece of writing. Thank you! You are so right. This is a piece of the puzzle that you expressed so well that even I understood it. Of course you are right when you stress we all do Brain Ev for different reasons - even our own motivation changes across the six months. This post I shall print out and read regularly until your insight becomes mine too. Well done, such clarity and simplicity. Thank you,
Pure Bliss

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« Reply #9 on: December 01, 2011, 02:40:39 PM »
Thank you, Pure Bliss!! I'll be performing here all week--lol  ;D ! I, too, liked your post above this one, on this thread to tewald and Pik -- great info. I am re-reading it now because there are a lot of excellent points here alone.

I also like your idea to help our ADD folks on a different thread. I think Dreamers points on trouble remembering to fill out the form daily and waiting till Jan 2012 are valid and excellent, too. Rock on!!
« Last Edit: December 01, 2011, 03:58:30 PM by AZ Warrior »
Sincerely and best regards,

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #10 on: December 05, 2011, 02:36:23 PM »
 Hello,
I would like to one more point here regardig falling asleep during Transcendence LEVEL -01  CD hearing.
In my opinion the bubles sound generate specific set of frequencies,and,the aim of all this is directed towards our nonconscious/subconscious mind(which is always in an awaked state).Not our conscious mind(which sleeps when we go to sleep(I think it is so).so if one falls asleep during the hearing session,I think its OK,as the directed area is wide awake.
Also this same principle is applied during the PARALIMINAL SESSIONS OF THE (HOLOSYNCH) LEARNING STRATEGIES CORP.
Whats yours worthy opinion?
Thanks and Regards
ZRD

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #11 on: December 09, 2011, 02:38:02 PM »
Greetings to you, July62,
Based on my understanding of the BrainEv program and subsequent reading around the topic of brainwave entrainment, we should aspire to be awake during the session. A very quiet, calm and relaxed state of awakeness, but awake nonethless. Obviously many of us have difficulties staying awake especially at the beginning of each level, but as we flex our mental muscles (just a metaphor, this), we become more able to remain just-about-awake while the session is running.

Anna Wise of Awakening the Brain explains it thus: alpha brainwaves make us very relaxed and occur in that half awake - half asleep state when we are just about to fall asleep at night. We are ultra-relaxed. Theta are slower brainwave frequencies, and we are unconscious - asleep to all intents and purposes. Delta is the brainwave state of deep, peaceful sleep, with slow. slow frequencies. When we entrain we start to learn to be awake during alpha, theta and delta frequencies. She calls this "keeping the alpha bridge open" so that negative muck and gunk can cross the bridge from delta and theta into conscious alpha (and hopefully be understood and processed by conscious analytical beta) - so we get to lose our baggage if we are lucky. Similarly theta and delta are the home of genius, insight, spiritual experiences, and if we can keep the alpha bridge open, we may be lucky enough to remember or directly experience this deep theta and delta stuff.

Keeping the alpha bridge open may well be a learnable skill. Fortunately it doesn't seem to matter if/when we learn this as so many BrainEv-ers seem to reap amazing benefits, whether they are conscious of theta/delta stuff or not once the session is over. It would appear, that for most of us, just entraining into slower, deeper frequencies is enough to work some seriously powerful magic.

I don't think you can make a comparison between brainwave training and Learning Strategies Paraliminal CDs.

I hope you don't mind me disagreeing with you!  ;) Warmest greetings, Pure Bliss

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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #12 on: December 11, 2011, 10:47:37 AM »
"Therefore, the reason for doing BrainEv will determine whether or not you should daydream, as daydreaming is purposefully stirring up thoughts, ideas, activity. If you are not trying to come up with ideas, then yes, it is counterproductive. That doesn't mean you won't see results."

That's interesting AZ Warrior; thanks for the info. I don't see anywhere in the instructions or videos that there is to be an actual purpose involved, so didn't know I was to have one. General purpose is to improve brain function, but that doesn't say much. I got the impression I wasn't really supposed to be thinking of much of anything during this time, which is why it was so boring.

Still on disk one (2 1/2 weeks of trial period), and haven't noticed any significant changes. Now it appears (from your response) that I should approach the sessions with some idea, some problem, etc., that needs solving, or at least thinking about; am I understanding this correctly?

Thanks, again.

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« Reply #13 on: December 11, 2011, 01:54:45 PM »
Hi Tom,

Let me clarify with examples and I hope this answers your question more concretely. According to BrainEv's developers, all you need to do is close your eyes, relax, listen to each level, & enjoy the ride. Therefore, relaxation (not meditation) are the instructions. However, some of us users meditate so you can meditate instead if you choose. BWE goes well (hand in hand) with meditation but isn't required or implied. The reason this is so is due to the fact that meditation and BrainEv explores the same different depths to consciousness/subconciousness/unconsciousness. In other words, they travel the same roads, sharing similar views, but use totally different vehicles (means) for different purposes or agendas. Using the road trip analogy further, we may all visit Paris, but some will see historical sites, others food or wine places, the countryside, some the Louvre or places of artistic importance, etc. Thus, they will have some similarities in common, but NOT exactly the same.

The rub is two-fold. First, A LOT of folks have an aversion to meditation. In my personal experience, people who do not meditate liken it to cults, attach religious implications to that word that believe conflicts with their own personal beliefs, religious prefs, etc. Prayer, whatever your religious background, can be a form of meditation. Let's face it, some people pervert the term "meditation." It is an understandable concern that may or may not be true. Again, meditation cannot be defined by experienced practitioners because it is different or serves a different function to each person who does it. It can have religious implications, but not necessarily. Running, calligraphy, archery, painting, etc., can be a meditation in itself if you make it into an art you then do or master. It can be relaxing, but doesn't have to be primarily. It can be an exploration into philosophy but it doesn't have to be. What meditation is not, it isn't passive by any means. BWE is a passive process if you follow BrainEv's instructions explicitly (hence, may cause boredom while doing it for some). This is because BWE does the majority of the work for you. Meditation, on the other hand, is a deliberate & active process, whereas BrainEv subscribing to relaxation techniques, may or may not be. Second, meditation is compounded by the complexity of different meditation practices or traditions. Your purpose determines your preferred or specific practice of choice. There are thousands, if not millions, of different ways to meditate and to different ends. A psychic, a scientist, a monk, and a Fortune 100 Executive may all meditate or do BWE, but do so to a different end. There are traditional methods (Buddhist, Taoist, etc), guided meditations, daydream meditations, etc. Some have religious traditions and some do not. Since BrainEv has no direct tie to any method, there are NO religious implications (ties), or bias to any one particular meditation practice--it is to your discretion as a user. It is whatever you wish it to be, as it best serves you, your needs, your goals, etc. If you wish to meditate while doing BrainEv you can; however, if meditation doesn't appeal to you, you can still use the BrainEv program as it requires only relaxation methods, as described above. In any case, it works and you will see results.

Once again, people use BrainEv for different purposes. If you wish to increase your chances of lucid dreams or suffer insomnia, you focus on Levels 4 & 5. ADD/ADHD sufferers (who respond best to Beta) or chronic beta folks (Type A, alpha males, &/or logical thinkers like myself  ;D ) might benefit from alpha or theta Brainwaves, whichever may be deficient in their case.  Creative or artistic folks looking for logical expression, for example, may fall through the cracks because beta isn't stressed by BrainEv (Level 3 has some low beta but not primary focus--I may be wrong in this, so I look to other's input here). If relaxation is your goal, Level 1 is for you. If you are looking to solve problems or "think-outside-the-box" (increase creativity), Levels 1-3 might serve this function depending on which level you respond to best as you go through the program initially. Whole brain thinking, the entire program.  The videos for each level by Michael (the engineer who developed BrainEv) discusses this at length, and does better justice than my attempt. I, therefore, defer to that.

As a meditator, I might initially see BWE as meditation without calling it that--a sort of tongue in cheek approach; but the above description should dispel such notions. For those who already meditate, it is--because of our experience and bias. Technically again, however, it is not true. Anyways, I hope this clarifies what BWE (BrainEv specifically) is and is not.
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Re: Impossible to stay awake
« Reply #14 on: December 11, 2011, 02:59:51 PM »
@Warrior.
Really enjoyed your post again. Worth going to the forum just to read this, expressed with such clarity. I can see your background in meditation (to use a word that is easily misunderstood, as you so aptly point out), and this sheds light on the difference between meditation as a practice and brainwave entrainment.

@Tom aka Tewald.
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I got the impression I wasn't really supposed to be thinking of much of anything during this time, which is why it was so boring.
I had to smile when I read this comment. Brainwave entrainment, if we feel open and secure enough, will allow both garbage and gold to bubble out from the unconscious parts of our mind. The mind has a whole arsenal of tricks to 'rob' us of accessing this data. In some of us it shows up as relentless mind chatter. No sooner do the headphones go on, than an endless stream of head-noise prevents us from 'letting go' and descending into alpha, theta and delta. Some users get antsy or irritable.  For others, like you, the boredom threshold triggers mind games.

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Still on disk one (2 1/2 weeks of trial period), and haven't noticed any significant changes.
Again, Tom, be aware of how devious the mind can be when it wants to sabotage us. I was lucky. My first 30 mins of Brain Ev just turned off my inner alarm button. I switched from a professional worrier and insomniac to a mild-as-a-pussycat, turn-the-other-cheek totally happy, laid-back, unflappable human being. I could not believe it, yet my whole outlook changed in 30 mins. This 'instant proof' enabled me to put my inner critic on hold and just open to the possibility that brainwave entrainment could benefit me.

It isn't my business to criticise. Please take my comments as kindly meant. You have already stated you have a low threshold for boredom. This may be a belief worth examining and shedding if it doesn't serve you well. Boredom, just like mind-chatter or irritability, are in my experience mind strategies we use again and again without being conscious of implementing them. In other words we fall for the self-sabotage and actually believe we are bored/irritated etc.

You state you haven't noticed any "Significant changes". What kind of change would be significant for you? Again in my experience, Brain Ev and its effects are often extremely subtle. A sense of well-being, or I just started to feel an inner content. My ability to bounce back from adversity increased - but I wouldn't have noticed that if I hadn't experienced a devastating disappointment.

I urge you to make a conscious effort prior to each session to drop all expectations, suspend all beliefs, release any resistance (i.e. the boredom trap). If you can lower your resistance, the rewards over the next 6 levels are amazing. It would be a pity if doubts and scepticism robbed you of what is there for the  taking.

One tip for boredom or recurring thoughts: When you feel X coming between you and the session, just say to your mind (because you are Tom, and Tom and his mind are two separate things) in a kind, gentle inner voice, "Not now, thank you!" You want your mind to cooperate and not fight you. So talk to it like a junior partner, assertively but kindly. "Right now I am Brain Eving. Please allow me these 30 minutes to fully engage. Thank you!" You will be amazed at how effective this is. [This tip comes from conventional meditator, Shaila Catherine and her marvellous book, "Focused and Fearless - A meditator's guide to states of deep joy, calm and clarity".]

My wish for you is to feel entrainment. One session is all it takes. Just let go and enjoy the ride! Happy inner journey, Pure Bliss

 


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